denis leary pretty much hit the nail on the head in this quote.... my own feelings couldn't have been described any better:
HA! but seriously...
simply enough, i'm not miserable anymore. i enjoy people... really, i enjoy most everyone in my life. looking around and taking inventory, it surprises me exactly how many people i like!
i guess i'm writing this to say.. it's never too late to stop being a shitty person. if you treat the people in your life with love, chances are they may just love you back.